Tuesday, July 26, 2016

Challenge Myself: Day #42 If You're Single, Flirt With Someone

Today is Day #42 of our Nar Anon Group Just For Today Challenge. I am also integrating the Live Happy into my Challenge. The Live Happy Challenge for today is about flirting with someone you are interested in, if you are single.

The exercise of flirting with a stranger would be for someone who is single but often in today's world that isn't necessarily the case. This
is especially true for those couples who have a son, daughter or in a lot of cases multiple children who are abusing drugs.

The hubby and I flirt with each other all of time. Just because you are married to each other doesn't mean you have to stop flirting with your spouse.

The book says,

You see a great looking guy or gal thumbing through a travel guide. Or maybe he or she is standing in front of the science fiction, business or computer bookshelves.

The point is that you like what you see. You could walk over, excuse yourself, and reach past him or her to retrieve the book right in front of them, or, if you are more timid, simply flash your sexy smile after making eye contact.

Comment on the book the other person is reading. Is it a travel guide to Ireland where you once bicycled or saw the Book of Kells?

Show curiosity and interest in what the other is reading and that person may become interested in you.

The hubby and I are completely devoted and loyal to each other. Just because you are married to your spouse doesn't mean that the flirting with each other stops. I've been married for thirty five years and the hubby and I flirt with each other all the time. A wink or a smile sometimes both.

Right now we have our one grandson with us for a short time. We are so used to just being a couple again that whenever one of the grandchildren are here we have to make time again just for ourselves.

Just For Today: I appreciate that the hubby and I are totally devoted to each other.

From the book: Live Happy


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